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kids at gigs
« on: November 15, 2013, 06:42:50 PM »
I've waited for eight years to be able to take my daughter to a gig and last night's Leeds gig was my first opportunity to do so. I also went with my brother and his eight year old son. On the whole people were great wishing the kids a great time, proper friendly. There was this one bloke though who moved away from us when we took up a vantage point in front of the mixing desk. Didn't think much of it though he did give us a 'look' as he and his partner moved away.
Anyway, he came up to me a few minutes later, a bit intoxicated to be fair, and asked me if I though a gig was a proper environment for a child. I said that I was her dad and that I thought it was indeed an appropriate place for her. She likes the music and when I gave her the chance to join me she jumped at the chance I added.
"So you play this music at home?"
 "Er, yes"
"Well what about people who want to come out and not have kids running about?"
 "Well don't go to a club that allows kids in, go somewhere else".
Anyway, he shuck my hand and wandered off (all unagressively I must point out).
So, question is, is an NMA gig inappropriate for the over eights? And do you, if kids are allowed into a venue, find their presence annoying?
Justin Bieber? One Direction? FFS! Those gigs are full of kids even younger. And don't get me started on Miley Ciris teaching her impressionable following to fellate sledge hammers... Justin's occasional potty mouth hardly warrants a blink.

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Re: kids at gigs
« Reply #1 on: November 15, 2013, 07:05:53 PM »
I thought it was great to see kids at the gig last night. catching them young, eh? ;-)

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« Reply #2 on: November 15, 2013, 07:16:58 PM »
I was stood on the left hand side of the mixing desk and saw you with your kids on your shoulders.

My reaction was one of complete admiration as if they love the music and the venue allows you to bring your kids in why not bring 'em.

It was great to see 'em mate

Hope they loved it and enjoy more gigs  :) :)
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Re: kids at gigs
« Reply #3 on: November 15, 2013, 10:07:40 PM »
We took our 10 year old son for his debut gig to Devizes, he has been listening to NMA for years out of preference, his favourite song is Fate and he loves Get Me Out and a host of other stuff. He had a couple of shoulder rides and caught Ceri and Dean's attention as we were front stage right on the night. Countless people came up and said how great it was to see Oli enjoying it so much and he was invited to be in the post gig fan line up photo by Kat and Spud (think I got that right, thanks folks) - at the end of the gig Ceri came to the front of the stage and gave Oli his plectrum.

I chose Devizes as I had a feeling it would be a laid back gig and venue in a small town (England!) and it was a perfect intro for him and now he can't wait to go again. The following couldn't have been more accepting. Wy should age disbar anyone from an Army gig?
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Re: kids at gigs
« Reply #4 on: November 16, 2013, 09:56:28 AM »
Kids love gigs...our youngest is 8 next week and she loves festivals and any live music :)
Taking kids to gigs is a real pleasure (as long as they want to be there!).
Obviously you stay at the sides or the back....the pit is not usually a fabulous idea(though a brief visit can be quite exciting!).
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« Reply #5 on: November 16, 2013, 10:01:07 AM »
Depends on the kids - If they like the music and want to go, and have the attention span to go, and you are responsible parents and accept if it is getting too much for them then your going home early. then why not (took mine to the Anti Nazi gig in leeds in 89 when she was 3 and she loved it, but we were with a group of about people who all helped in looing after her. though as she got older she rebelled by listening to Celine Dion records).

If taking them is because you can't get a babysitter no.

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Re: kids at gigs
« Reply #6 on: November 16, 2013, 12:27:22 PM »
Been taking ours to gigs for years.  Our eldest, Karin (16), came with us to Buckley last night and loved it.  It was her second NMA gig and she had a good bounce around, behaved herself well, knew more lyrics than me (must sort that out...) and was very chuffed with the whole thing.

NMA is a family, and families have kids, right?  So take them to gigs...

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« Reply #7 on: November 16, 2013, 10:44:22 PM »
my baby maya loves music and she askes me to put music to dance (really...) and she is 1 year and 3 months. she stands in front of the speakers and she moves up and down with her little legs she is just amazing. yesterday she went nut with a live album of Misfits for example. She is is so small but truly one can see that she loves music. and new model army too and a lot (by the way she s born when Navigating by the Stars playing.................) but the point for me is (even if she was older) how can I bring her to a gig and not **** up her ears?
ah yes.......the guy at the gig u mentioned was an asshole.
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« Reply #8 on: November 16, 2013, 10:45:48 PM »
Been taking ours to gigs for years.  Our eldest, Karin (16), came with us to Buckley last night and loved it.  It was her second NMA gig and she had a good bounce around, behaved herself well, knew more lyrics than me (must sort that out...) and was very chuffed with the whole thing.

NMA is a family, and families have kids, right?  So take them to gigs...
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« Reply #9 on: November 17, 2013, 10:24:42 AM »
I've been taking my kids to festivals and gigs since before they were born.
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They heard music inside me and they hear music outside with me.
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Now they're old enough to go without me.
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« Reply #10 on: November 17, 2013, 12:15:49 PM »
No problem at all with kids at the gigs, the following needs new members as we're all getting older  :'(  :D

I wish I was taken to gigs as a nipper instead of having to wait sooooo long.
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« Reply #11 on: November 17, 2013, 08:36:19 PM »
...the guy at the gig u mentioned was an asshole.

Ah that's hardly fair is it?  It seems to me that the guy at the gig was just questioning something that he wasn't accustomed to.  It seemed like he was trying to get his head around something that kinda confused him - that - again to me - seems like an ok thing to do - surely we can talk about things that we're not sure of - if something at a gig takes us out of our comfort zone - and for him it seems his comfort zone is that gigs are adult occasions - well; personally I like the fact that he questiond it.  How's he going to change his head if he doesn't question this?  No; me - I think he was cool - I guess it depends on the guys intentions; whether he was being scolding or whether he was being questioning.
I'd like to think that we're that we're ok with talking about any disagreements we have.

and for the record - I think we shoud take kids to gigs.  They're exciting events that kids will cherish.

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« Reply #12 on: November 17, 2013, 08:59:30 PM »
...the guy at the gig u mentioned was an asshole.

Ah that's hardly fair is it?  It seems to me that the guy at the gig was just questioning something that he wasn't accustomed to.  It seemed like he was trying to get his head around something that kinda confused him - that - again to me - seems like an ok thing to do - surely we can talk about things that we're not sure of - if something at a gig takes us out of our comfort zone - and for him it seems his comfort zone is that gigs are adult occasions - well; personally I like the fact that he questiond it.  How's he going to change his head if he doesn't question this?  No; me - I think he was cool - I guess it depends on the guys intentions; whether he was being scolding or whether he was being questioning.
I'd like to think that we're that we're ok with talking about any disagreements we have.

and for the record - I think we shoud take kids to gigs.  They're exciting events that kids will cherish.
In fairness, Ive been to enough gigs to realise that while there are people at gigs for the same musical tastes, it doesnt mean we all have the same opinions about life and its many follies or upbringing. And Ive met people who are assholes at gigs (particularily one individual that sent my other half flying across the floor in his selfish quest to find "his" spot). Ultimately its no-ones place to question anyone being at an open event that theyve gone to to enjoy, although I do think this guy approached it in a fair way, so good on him.. Kids at concerts/ women at football matches. Its 2013 ffs. I appreciate the need to debate things but sometimes you cant reason with the unreasonable.
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Re: kids at gigs
« Reply #13 on: November 17, 2013, 09:02:47 PM »
Thanks for your thoughts people. To be fair even if folk had objected I wouldn't have taken any notice  ;). As for the bloke in question I have to repeat he was not aggressive in any way. As Kinevel points out he was perhaps just reacting to something outside his comfort zone. I also got the impression he isn't a 'regular'. My girl is now 8 and gigs that come up within 70 miles of home that allow over 8's in we will be there.  :)

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« Reply #14 on: November 17, 2013, 09:04:26 PM »
Thanks for your thoughts people. To be fair even if folk had objected I wouldn't have taken any notice  ;). As for the bloke in question I have to repeat he was not aggressive in any way. As Kinevel points out he was perhaps just reacting to something outside his comfort zone. I also got the impression he isn't a 'regular'. My girl is now 8 and gigs that come up within 70 miles of home that allow over 8's in we will be there.  :)
Good on ya mate  :)
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