I just left an NMA fb fan group. I don't really feel like I fit. It goes from a good discussion, then someone misinterprets something, then it's an argument, it often gets nasty or personal, then people change subjests and ignore the fact that somebody was just verbally insulted. I keep rejoining, then realising that this forum is where I belong. One of the fan groups on fb is complete anarchy. I have read some really nasty things. Then they have the like system crap. People here are very nice and understanding and hardly ever get into arguments. I have no filter and basically speak impulsively, I am trying to improve but get crucified on fb even after explaining. It is hard to create a filter that the majority of the world already has at birth. If I know that I hurt someone, I feel horrible and mentally punish myself very badly. It also sucks when two hours later, you realize how stupid you sounded. Then you are ashamed and develop a social phobia.
I also type exactly how I speak.
And actually, friends I have made on NMA tours were most accepting and understanding.
