Write a letter to an anonymous person

[Amandistan]

   We have all said things that we regret and did not mean. These may have affected other people. Some may feel bad about it but never got a chance to apologize or were to stubborn to do so.   Or maybe you just have something to say to someone that you love but prefer to remain secret. Whatever it is, writing anonymous letter may make you feel better.

I will begin...

Dear Anonymous,
I was very angry and impatient and took my anger out on you. You were just being yourself. Perhaps our personalities clashed a bit but i had no right to treat you like that or  make you feel excluded. I took my own issues and bottled-up anger out on you and that is not okay. I was aggressive without reason. I feel really bad for it and wish i could see you to apologize. In the future I will be more understanding as I am often misunderstood and want the same.
Sincerely , Amindistan

Here is another.

I was too preoccupied to thank you and basically beat myself up about it. You seemed really angry and i sensed anger after i thought it was resolved. I know that  you think i am negative but i really appreciated your help and really liked you. Sorry, I messed up yet again. Sometimes I think that I don't deserve to even interact with other humans.

[Heno]

i get the idea, get it down on paper puts things in perspective. but my head analyses every outcome so i wcould never write a note; rather it would be an epic if i got started.

and sometimes people might be tempted to send something they think reads ok, especially in moments of emotional weakness. lets be clear with that one; you can never truly retract the written or spoken word for that matter.

and people should be strong in their convictions. they need to see things for what they are. and just how it fits in with the grand scheme of things.

i'm not sure i'd ever write anything

i know one bloke who wrote a full admission or confession to a "friend" for an absolutely stupid thing to do in the first place. can never be taken back. and horribly confirms the worst thoughts that people had about it.

even if they won't talk to you, don't revert to writing, i think. and i've never truly understood anonymity of thought since it influences everything

[Pol]

Written word is always difficult.
Its the old adage its not what you say but the way that you say it.
Would say to Amanda relax we have all made mistakes along the way, you have made your apologies and done what you can.

[BlackCountryMaggiD]

I know who both of those were written to Amanda!

[Amandistan]

I am hoping that the anonymous people read this. They will obvious know who they are and i know for certain that one is on the board. Anonymous letters work if your intentions are good. If you are doing it to say something nasty, they usually backfire.