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Re: A thread for those who 'lurk' / read this Forum but don't post...
« Reply #15 on: July 29, 2015, 11:53:55 PM »
I lurk a LOT more than I post these days.  But it's like that everywhere with me on the web.  I used to post regularly on a number of different forums, I was really active on Facebook, etc. 

There's no real reason why I kinda just stopped though.  I do miss the friendship I had built up with a lot of people over the years but for the most part, those people are always around (even though a lot of them have slowed down as well). 

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Re: A thread for those who 'lurk' / read this Forum but don't post...
« Reply #16 on: July 30, 2015, 01:03:13 AM »
Good to know you are still out there Brian  :)

I can empathise with the point raised by Ava and  cthulu. In the past I have written long or heart felt posts expecting some sort of response and none have come. It can sometimes be disheartening but I suppose at the end of the day there are not that many active users of this forum posting regularly, and if those that do just do not have a reply or opinion on the matter, then that's that.

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Re: A thread for those who 'lurk' / read this Forum but don't post...
« Reply #17 on: July 30, 2015, 10:31:44 AM »
I just can't be arsed sometimes !

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I don't get involved with anything that is too complicated for my little head and I don't give a shit about who likes cheese and onion crisps or thinks Musical Youth are the best band in the world.

Better thing to worry about.

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Re: A thread for those who 'lurk' / read this Forum but don't post...
« Reply #18 on: July 31, 2015, 06:56:39 PM »
Fair enough WW!   :)
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Re: A thread for those who 'lurk' / read this Forum but don't post...
« Reply #19 on: August 04, 2015, 02:20:42 PM »
I must admit I'm a bit of a lurker. I don't really do Facebook, Twitter, or any chatty online stuff. Im always very interested in what the band and fans are up to,but i don't really know anybody. This is the only forum i have ever joined or commented on.
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Re: A thread for those who 'lurk' / read this Forum but don't post...
« Reply #20 on: August 05, 2015, 09:45:04 AM »
Myself, I've been a member of this and previous incarnations of this board since the late 90's, so a very long time. I used to post a lot more and over the years have been involved in many discussions and quite a few full blown arguments with a number of (almost invariably) rightwing individuals and/or trolls, one or two of which still resurface every now and then. HOWEVER, the main reason of me being here has always been keeping in touch with people I know in real life: I have no problem saying I'm not the most sociable person on the planet, generally speaking I don't talk to strangers in real life, so I don't see why I should do it on the internet.
So what's changed? In a word: Facebook. I don't mean the NMA page, I'm even less active there than I'm here. And of course I'm aware of all the shit things facebook is and does, but for all its faults it allows you to 'pick' the people you interact with (in my case almost invariably real-life friends or people I've at least met in person a couple of times) and talk to, and leave all those you don't like or have any interest talking to out.
It seems in the last few years quite a few of the old posters and people I actually see and meet up with at gigs have made the same choice as I have, we keep in touch, talk about various things, have our banter, organise meet ups etc. Some of them still post here sometimes, but like me less and less often, and of course there are a couple of the current regular posters here I have met in real life but are not on fb, but not that many at present, so while I still like coming back and reading posts every now and then, I don't tend to be very active anymore, and I don't expect things to change anytime soon.

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Re: A thread for those who 'lurk' / read this Forum but don't post...
« Reply #21 on: August 05, 2015, 10:10:29 AM »
Aye, I think that you've pretty much summed up my reasons Danny. If I'm honest, while pleased that it's still here, I'm actually very surprised that this forum still exists considering how many have closed over recent years. Particularly considering the vastly reduced number of folk who now use it (and I'm assuming that the band pay to maintain its upkeep)...
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Re: A thread for those who 'lurk' / read this Forum but don't post...
« Reply #22 on: August 05, 2015, 11:16:53 AM »
I've used the forum in its various incarnations back to the late 90s threaded thing that used to scroll down the screen for miles.    I do look at it once every couple of days but often just have a quick scan in each category and don't open that many threads.  There's no particular reason.  It's always ebbed and flowed and had flare ups of aggro and then quieter periods, so there's nothing that's put me off as such.   Perhaps I've just got a bit more going on now and so discussions that I might have read more of or joined in with, I just leave alone.

I'm also on the unofficial FB NMA group but I treat it similar to this forum.  I have it hidden so that it doesn't constantly come up on my news feed and I just have a look at it when I fancy.

Most names I know on here, I also know in real life from tours and festivals.  Most of the people I travel with for NMA gigs don't really use the forum much if at all and so we just sort practicalities out using phone and email.

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