It is hard Stephanie I agree. The amount of crap that is thrown around by everyone is like wading through treacle to get at the core of the issue. But it is so important for us all I think.
The issue really is as I see it, removing the chaff a bit, is do we want to be part of an ever closer union with Europe or not. And by union we mean one state, subjugation of some/many of each countries national decision making into one amorphous mass. In essence the country would be called Europe.
Lots of people are worried about the concept of amorphous mass states. There is evidence for example that the US/Canada/Mexico want/wanted to form the NAU the North American Union and have....guess what...one currency. When elites want to herd currencies, countries, states into one block, alarm bells should sound. They do in my head anyway!

This is a stated aim of many of the countries. Britain never signed up for this. That is not being rude it is a fact. In fact I'm unaware that any other member was asked that either, but they do not seem as concerned which is fine. Now I'm not saying this is wrong, I'm not saying we have had treaties our weaselly politicians signed up to that didn't ratify the ever closer policy. But it seems to matter to us for a multiplicity of reasons. So we want a vote.
My feeling is that we will stay in and I think that vote will not be as close as people think. For example only 11% of 18 to 29s want to leave. And that is fine, that is democracy.
For me, people like Cameron, Gove, Corbyn, gulp Galloway are a complete irrelevance to me. They don't run my business or family, they will still have their nailed on cushy career politicians salary and pension to look forward to. So I think we must look at data on how it will effect us.
IF we go, and I do not think we will, there seems to be some sort of thought that we hate Europe. I believe the complete opposite and we still will be part of Europe. Trade will continue, because that is its nature. We will still be friends. We must still cooperate for security for all. We share so many values between us that will continue.
ps I know what some of you are thinking. Bloody ldopas doesn't post for a month and now we cannot shut the bugger up!